IvyHave you ever noticed how easy it is to give your energy away right now?
It only takes one headline, a post, a social media debate… the small annoyances just feel BIG.
I’m not alone in this experience, right?
And it happens so quickly, even when you’ve set an intention to stay out of it…
💭 Okay, maybe just stay away from it for a few days…
💭 Okay, just stay away from it today…
💭 Okay, fine, check in for only a minute…
And the next thing you know, your heart is racing, your stomach is turning, and your energy is leaking out all over the place to make room for all of the other things you’re feeling.
So how can you change this pattern?
The first step is to ground yourself in truth — You don’t have to hold everything (or even anything) and you don’t have to carry what isn’t yours.
If you can’t directly affect what’s worrying you right now, then there’s no need to focus on it.
But easier said than done, right?
Let’s make it practical and give your mind and body something real to hold onto.
🌿 Pause. Feel your feet on the floor.
🌿 Take a deep breath. Let your shoulders drop.
🌿 Put a hand over your heart. Say this affirmation (out loud if you can):
I reclaim my focus, my clarity, my peace.”
Now, let’s take it a step further.
When the world pulls at your attention, ask yourself:
💡 Does this truly need my energy?
💡 Will engaging with this make me feel stronger, or more drained?
💡 Am I feeding the chaos, or choosing my clarity?
If you need permission, then consider this you’re greenlight—You are allowed to unplug from the noise. You are allowed to unhook from what isn’t yours to carry. You are allowed to stand in your own clarity.
The truth is your power is yours and yours alone. Your focus is yours. Your peace is yours.
You are allowed to hold it. You are allowed to protect it. Because when you protect your energy, you don’t just help yourself—you become a light for others, too.
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Sweetheart, what a beautiful, inspiring post. Love you mamag
Thank you! Love you so!